It’s time to break those stereotypes pertaining to happy family rules with a fun post that’s going to leave you agreeing with so many on our list.
Believe it or not, when we enter the bond of marriage, we come with a lot of expectations of our own. In the same way, we’re pounded with advice from loved ones and friends who think they know it all. As it is, getting married is a new experience and the last thing anyone wants is to make mistakes thanks to a set of rules that people swear by.
Experts state that’s it’s best to ignore what others have to say and find your own way. Hence, that’s exactly what we feel you should be doing from the start. Below, we’re counting down the top family rules that truly never work out. But how many of you can relate is the real question on our minds!
There is no room for lies, whatsoever
Believe it or not, we all make mistakes and if you’ve got no room for compromise, then there’s no way you’re going to make this marriage work. Yes, dishonesty is definitely not the best way to go about a situation. But hey, if it happens, apologize and move on.
Don’t makeup from huge fights by turning to sex
Makeup sex can be really good for some couples. And while experts tell you to steer clear, if it works, then enjoy it!
Whatever free time you have, spend it with each other
Having time alone is what makes relationships grow stronger. After all, no one likes seeing each other’s faces 24/7. Learn to respect each other’s space and have fun whenever you’re together.
Force your partner to share your interests in activities
Forcing anyone to do anything is always a big mistake and it never works out in marriages too. You are an individual with a unique identity. You don’t need to force anyone to do anything they don’t like!
You can’t argue about the little things in life
It’s the little things in life that actually make it all worthwhile in the end. So stop with the rules and do whatever you two do best. And if that means discussing small matters then why not?
Your kids are your first priority
Big no in most experts’ books. You need to make you and your partner your first priority. Yes, kids are important too but if you don’t leave time for yourself or your relationship, you can’t complain in the end!
Now that the list is out, how many of these rules do you follow in your married life? Let us know in the comments section and don’t forget to SHARE the fun article with others too!